We all start with as a first timer, so here is a guide on What to Say During Phone Sex.

There are lots of things that you could or should say during phone sex for the best kind of honest sex. The first thing you should say is hello and smile as you say it so the other person can really tell how pleased you are to be chatting with them. A smile can be sensed by the other person and it will relax both of you.

Then you must say how you are feeling whether it is horny, kinky or excited to be talking to them. Ask them how they are feeling too as this will guide you as to what to say next. The next thing to say is where you are i.e.: your bedroom and what you are doing i.e.: playing with a sex toy. This will give the other person a mental picture of what you are up to and try to give as many details as you possibly can to help them visualise it. i.e.: I am lying on my bed wearing a white lace bra and panties. I have pulled my panties to one side and I am stroking myself with a nice realistic looking vibrator. You can then ask them what they are wearing and what they are doing.

Next you need to find out what turns them on, what they fantasise about, so you know what to have phone sex about. It is no good if you just try and chat about what interests you only as the other person might get bored of the conversation.

When your body starts to react to the phone sex chat then tell the other person, describe what is happening to your body so that they know that they are turning you on. i.e.: my nipples are getting hard and they are tingling and my fingers are getting wet with my juices. Describing how your body is reacting is a turn on in itself so don’t be shy and let them know.

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Don’t be embarrassed about talking dirty to the other person if they like it. There are two ways you can talk dirty, you can do it mildly as in, “I want to make love to you and make you moist until you reach orgasm” or you can talk really dirty as in, “ I want to fuck you and make your wet pussy cum all over my cock”. There is no wrong way to having phone sex, it all depends on what you and the other person likes. The only way you can find out what your phone sex partner likes is by asking them.

Always say your phone sex partners name during your conversation as it makes it more personal whether it is their real name or they may like to be called master/mistress or slut. Try to compliment the other person if you are having a good time i.e.: god you are turning me on so much, I haven’t felt this excited in a long time” but don’t forget to give the details i.e.: you are making my smooth pussy so wet and my nipples are aching for you.

If you want phone sex partner to do something for you or say something too you tell them. Nearly all the people who do phone sex are not psychic so they won’t know anything else you say it. Being open and honest to each other about what you like leads to fantastic phone sex.

When you are staring to feel close to reaching orgasm make sure you tell them as this could heighten their’s and it will give you both more chance of reaching climax together. You shouldn’t be afraid of making noise either such as, panting, moaning as it will add to your joint excitement and it indicates just how turned on you are.

Finally when you have both climaxed tell other how it felt, if it was great then tell your partner how great it was and why. Every one loves compliments especially about some thing as important as sex.